Hollie makes a point to identify the obvious that people show you who they truly are quickly if you pay attention. True actions speak louder than words but words themselves are actions. Words are also not meaningless. The key to this is the man lacks long term commitment; not that he enjoys cheating. Rather he is simply never in a position to go too long if he most likely confronts an obstacle. A platonic hug and goodbye says he has the willpower but his interest waivers when confronted with an issue (hence the second hookup attempt). Never say never, stereotypes are never representative of the whole sample, our personal experiences are not the entire truth and exceptions always apply. As if we adopt hollies actions to her personal situation we could say she finds ways to justify committing adultery (which I’m sure is not true). Good article just experience centered.