They take pride in its appearance. They don’t mistreat it. They always protect it from harm. Why isn’t this you? — GENTS LETS BE HONEST Women are not things. Women are people. Funny. Some guys take care of things better than people. Why do healthy boundaries exist for a car but not a wife? No smoking. No drinking. You buy insurance for accidents but no life insurance for your wife. You…

The price of the candy you refused was as expensive as a Rolls Royce. The cost of a missed hug was as big as a court appearance. Don’t misjudge your children. — A YOUTHFUL PERSPECTIVE We forget. We fail to remember how significant things were to us as children. A child sees different. There’s no secret in the obvious. We all know this knowledge. The secret many fail to learn is different. Bridging perspectives. This means translation skills. We must recognize life…

Their only replies are liking your text messages. They wait for you to double text. They can’t return a call. The catch? They like you. — WHERE DID EQUALITY GO? Equality. We know this term. It’s a big part of modern-day women. Equal pay, equal voice and well everything else. In an egalitarian society you assume this results in reciprocity. Wrong. Theory and application are often different. Women are still timid by nature. They’re aggressive in…

An Argentinian wonder is called a wonder by many. She smiles and waives. Underneath the smile is not happiness. — WHAT DO WE HAVE HERE “Men are sh*t”. Wow. Yes. That’s what she said. In those exact words. This came from a woman. Not me. Objectively she is beautiful. My cousin said she was a 10. If beauty was the sole requirement for marriage, I’d marry her. As a professional…

All men are dogs. All we do is chase women. Stats show women might be scaredy cats with love. Men are in a one-way chase. — WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT? Media is an interesting outlet. All of us were conditioned. Even me. I’ll admit it. I was guilty. Never in my wildest imagination could I guess what I read. Men fall in love faster than women. Men want relationships more than women too. Men want marriage…

Remember Vietnam? United States versus Soviet Union. The result? A communist government, decade long drafts and a loss swept under the rug. — TAKING A LESSON NOT A LOSS The US intelligence community uses a complicated abbreviation. It’s a real tongue twister. DOTMLPF. The acronym stands for: doctrine, organization, training, materiel, leadership and education, personnel, and facilities. The true performance of Russia is measured by this tongue twister. It’s an eye opener. …

Couples who make it have something in common. Couples who don’t do too. Which category are you in? — TO BE OR NOT TO BE Marriage identity is going through crisis. It seems people cannot agree. If you speak to one, they tell you one definition of marriage. Another says something else. Everyone argues about what marriage is. Those arguing are the ones divorcing. It seems everyone forgot about…

You need a nice man. You need a nice guy. No. You need a rude man with boundaries. — NICE GUY’S ALWAYS COMPROMISE Most women say they want a relationship with compromise. That makes sense. Women compromise for children. Women compromise for others’ feelings. Women compromise career to give birth. Every aspect of a woman’s life is about compromise. With today’s blurred relationship lines, it seems women are asking…

Love. It’s something we crave. What do we crave more? Being in love. — TO LOVE OR NOT TO LOVE Being in love is wonderful. The senses really go crazy. I would argue it’s better than sex. With sex you have a period on a sentence. Being in love is like a chapter. Love goes way past the first line in your story book…